Patients mosty develop defense mechanism that we can see easily nearly all alcoholic people. These causes of the mechanism are a way of protecting the individual and for some, it is precisely caused by need for their rigidity , which, lead to the using of a psycho active substances (alcohol, drugs,
medication etc ...)
Defense mechanisms have been admirably demonstrated by Freud, in
early 20th century, through the psychoanalytic method he has
developed to better understand the unconscious, the ego, people from
all cultures.
Of all the defense mechanisms that exist, here are 12 that
met more frequently and are particularly
risk.
12 defense mechanisms fairly common arround alcoholics:
The projection, transfer, idealisation, rationalization,
justification, the compulsion to repeat, compensation, denial,
denial, repression, the retroactive cancellation and
transformation in the opposite.
• The projection: Projection in another person that we are unable to see or accept ourselves.
Ex: to say that the other does not hear us, when in reality
we will sincerely Let's not listen to the words of another, say
the other is a thief when it is we who have stolen.
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• Transfer:
Transfer to a person or the agreable or disagreable characteristics someone else that we have known, without having cionscience.
Ex: see our boss as our father, see our new as our former companion who is or who died, see our children as our brother or sister when we were children.
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• The idealization:
To idealize a person, the more perfect it is in Actually, to avoid being confronted by too quickly to what we may dislike it, we do get away and we invite us alone.
Ex: out for the first time with someone and say that is the prince or princess as we expected, a first Project meeting with someone and think that the collaboration
will be barrier-free and perfect for eternity.
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• Rationalization:
Streamline, logically explain irrational behavior that we had and we do not (sometimes it is a reactivation of a past trauma).
Ex: crying when a parent returns home after a it is because we just think of the sad film we have heard recently (the departure may unconsciously remind us
departure or the loss of a person who was very valuable for us); yelling at a child and say that because we are tired (although this has been a reminder unconsciously
behavior very disturbing or very frightening another person
we have known).
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• The justification: Justify,
explained at length why we made something out of fear
to be rejected.
Ex arrive late for an appointment and explain 15 minutes for what happened; orgotten a commission that we had been requested and details of our activities responsible for day for half an hour.
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• The compulsion to repeat:
Repeat a gesture apparently useless for fear of an accident or
future problem (usually compensates for this gesture unconscious thought
which is in line with our fear).
Ex: close to 4 times round the stove and the block 4 times
locks on doors before leaving (the unconscious thought can be:
at the bottom I would like this house burns or is robbed);
wash every day floors already own or take showers 3
per day (the unconscious thought might be: I am a person
sale, for example, because I had sexual behavior that I
finds unacceptable).
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• Compensation: To compensate for a lack of satisfaction with a satisfaction that does not meet it.
Ex: wanting to change jobs and place to make every effort
necessary to redouble our hard work that we do not like
more; want a good massage or a union with tender
someone, and instead of making efforts to find
that person, eating a bag of cookies.
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• Denial: Denying the reality of something to avoid feeling at the moment too difficult to live.
Ex: pass very close to having a car accident and that
we have not been afraid that this was even "trippant" insulting a friend and
sad see him go and tell another friend that we had
only say nice things.
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• Denial: Denying the intellectual or emotional bond between 2 confrontational situations.
Ex: are quarreling with her lover (se), shortly after his overthrow
glass of juice and that there was no link between the stress of
previous situation and what has happened, be denied a
promotion, go get drunk in a bar and say that just because
we had the desire to celebrate.
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• Refoulement: refouler unpleasant emotions, not to express, and sometimes come to be cut from one type of emotion or memory.
Ex: being beaten or abused by his father and as if nothing
had happened, come to forget the history, be
neglected by a (e) conjoint (e) and not to suffer in silence
(until sufficiently amplified emotion comes to explode
!).
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• The retroactive cancellation: Cancel imagination unpleasant action that we made casts a nice gesture in the future.
Eg deceive their spouses and pay him a week's holiday
in southern thereafter; make a big crisis to another, and little
after being very, very soft by agreeing to do anything
or that the person requests.
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• The opposite transformation : Transforming a feeling uncomfortable by masking real emotion.
Ex: being jealous of a colleague of study or work and say how we are all happy for him, be angry at a friend or family member and display the same time a large
fake smile.